Having a sex change          Retiring abroad           Sending children to private school                       Having laser eye surgery          Taking a cruise          Sailing around the world          Coming out          Having cosmetic surgery          Planning a funeral               Having children (from a man's perspective)                  Taking an MBA           Getting on celebrity TV           Emigrating to Australia          Stopping children (vasectomy / sterilisation)          Having hip replacement   A portfolio lifestyle    Writing a book   Using a dating agency